“5 Shocking Myths About The Female Orgasm Are Literally Ruining Your Sexual Life…”

March 4th, 2009

Women want to know why they aren’t able to have orgasms with their partners. Couples want to know how they achieve simultaneous or multiple orgasms.

It’s not surprising that orgasms are such a popular topic. Anyone who has ever experienced an orgasm knows that they feel wonderful and create a feeling not easily duplicated by anything else, particularly when they are achieved in a loving, committed relationship.

What is surprising is that so little is known about female orgasms.

Both men and women come to me with all kinds of misinformation about the subject. Others are completely lacking any kind of information. They don’t even know how to get started. Some are disillusioned or frustrated as a result of repeated faked orgasms.

After all this time, I’ve decided it is time to educate more people about female orgasms.

Now, before you can begin learning anything new about any subject, you must usually un-learn some of what you’ve been taught in the past.

When that subject is female orgasms, that fact is even more true.

 

 

For a long time, female orgasms have been misunderstood by both men and women and that has brought us to a point where a sizable portion of sexually active women have never had an orgasm and even more have never had an orgasm with their partner.

Both groups and their sexual partners are missing out on a wonderful experience, but before you can begin learning the techniques which will generate that elusive orgasm you must first confront some of the most common myths in our culture about female orgasms.

These 5 myths are literally ruining  the sex life of THOUSANDS of couples.

 

After you understand that these are JUST myths (and nothing else) you will finally know that it is possible to

 

 

please a woman with multiple orgasms every time.

With that said, let´s get started…

 

Myth 1: Some women just can’t have orgasms.

 

While there are women who have never had an orgasm, there is no evidence to suggest some women are incapable of having orgasms. There are two reasons why some women have not had orgasms in their lives.

The first is that for whatever reason they have never masturbated. Masturbation is often a woman’s first orgasm experience.

The second is that they simply are not receiving the proper type of genital stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is needed by most women to have an orgasm. Without that stimulation, it most likely isn’t going to happen.

There are some women who have psychological blocks when it comes to experiencing sexual pleasure. This may be the result of any number of past events in their lives, but even that does not mean they are physically incapable of having an orgasm. If they worked through those problems, they would be able to engage in orgasm-producing intercourse just like any other woman.

 

Myth 2: Women take longer to reach orgasm than men.

 

This is another common myth which has not been supported by research. The reason people believe this is that they don’t understand the female arousal pattern.

Women’s arousal patterns are much different than men’s and, as a result, they are physically prepared for intercourse later than men are.

The time from optimal arousal to orgasm is pretty much identical for both men and women. The difference is in how long it takes to reach that level of arousal. Because men often don’t know how to help their partners get to that point, it does seem to take longer.

Once that’s changed, however, men find their partners reach orgasm more quickly and even have multiple orgasms in quick succession.

 

Myth 3: A Woman can reach orgasm more easily if her partner has a large penis.

 

Men who have worried for eons about the size of their penis can relax.

The truth is that size really doesn’t matter all that much. Since only the first two inches of a woman’s vagina are sensitive to stimulation, anything over that amount is useless during intercourse, at least from the woman’s physical perspective.

In fact, when men are overly concerned with the size of their penis and whether it’s sufficient, their minds aren’t focused on pleasuring their partner and that is no way to experience female orgasm.

A survey done by the Kinsey Institute found that the average size of an erect penis measured from the tip to where it connects with the rest of the body is 6.16 inches in length. The girth of an erect penis is 4.84 inches on average.

Both of these statistics are come as a surprise to men and to women who have been convinced by our culture (and possibly pornographic movies and magazines) that the average size of an erect penis is eight or nine inches. That same Kinsey study actually found that less than 2% of men have penises which meet that requirement.

Remember whether a man’s penis size is below, above, or just average, he still has the ability to help his partner reach orgasm and that is far more worthy of praise than a few extra inches of penis.

 

Myth 4: There’s nothing wrong with faking orgasms.

 

The majority of women sincerely believe this myth, but the truth is there is something very wrong with faking orgasms.

First, faking an orgasm is a form of lying to your partner. The woman is telling him that he has achieved something which she knows he has not.

While that may make him happy or may make him feel good about himself temporarily, in the long run any lie will hurt the relationship because it will eventually be discovered. No matter how good our intentions lying during a relationship is never going to make it stronger.

 

Second, women who fake orgasms because their partners are not helping them reach climax are denying themselves pleasure wrongly. Faking orgasms not only interrupts a woman’s enjoyment of the actual intercourse, it also prevents the man from trying other ways to please her. From his perspective, the sex is great.

The only way to have a mutually satisfying sexual and non-sexual relationship is through honesty.

Although problems in the bedroom can be hard to discuss, bringing them up and working through them will strengthen the relationship and will make the sex better for both partners.

 

Myth 5: Women should only reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.

 

This is definitely not true but it’s a myth that has caused us to take women’s sexual needs for granted for a long time.

 This myth actually started with Sigmund Freud, the developer of psychoanalysis, who had recognized that women could easily reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

Freud dismissed this type of stimulation as juvenile and believed it was important for women to become more sexually mature by focusing only on vaginal stimulation to reach orgasms.

The problem is that the vagina was not designed for orgasms. It does not have the concentrated nerve endings that one finds in the clitoris or in the head of a penis, for example.

As a result of Freud’s determination, women who could not reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse were considered to have some type of psychological impairment. All sorts of methods were devised in an attempt to “liberate” women from their reliance on the clitoris for sexual pleasure.

Only in recent decades has society begun talking openly about the women’s right to enjoy sex and to reach orgasm in whatever manner worked for her.

 

How To Get Started

You may be asking yourself:

“How do I get started, now that I know the truth behind the 5 myths?”

And that´s a great question.

Because there´s no value in understanding the truth behind these 5 myths UNLESS you know the correct techniques and positions to please your woman with an intense orgasm.

After reading the 5 myths, you realized that it is POSSIBLE for every woman to reach and orgasm.

And now the question is:

“How to do it?”

I will explain how.

I will NOT rest until you can please your lover every night with an intense orgasm (or even multiple orgasms). She will even make the neighbors complain…  trust me.

To Please Women In Bed You Need To Know These Important Facts:  

 

  • Women are much more likely than men to FAKE an orgasm.  They simply throw back their heads, shake, shiver and moan, and their partners are patting themselves on the back for another job well done!  The truth is that a recent study showed that 70% of women admitted to have faked an orgasm at least once!  

  • A  recent survey showed that 40% of women had to masturbate to reach an orgasm; only 27% reached an orgasm during sex!  

  • More than 50% of women are unsatisfied with their sex life, and 10% have never had an orgasm during sex!    

    • Only 14% of women in a recent survey reported  having experienced multiple orgasms;  

      • Approximately 10% of women have never had an orgasm, and 70% of women are unable to orgasm during intercourse alone.

       

      This might seem to be the most startling news you’ve read in a long time, but you know what? It’s the truth! You’ll find out much more as you continue to read this article.  

       

       

      And That’s Not All:  

      • WARNING: Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship (many of them as a result of being unsatisfied with their sex life!)

      • More than 20% of the women who have had extramarital affairs reported they did so for purely sexual reasons.  

       

       

      Do You Want To Know Why Women That Are So Frustrated With Their Sex Lives Are Literally “Forced” To Find Satisfaction With “Someone Else”?  

      The answer is simple. Women are unsatisfied with their sex life because they aren’t having regular orgasms! It’s that simple!    

      Would you be interested in sex if you never reached an orgasm? Of course not!  

      Imagine how your sex life would be if you had to “be an Academy-Award-Actor” every single time and FAKE orgasms every day!     

      The truth that this is what it’s like for many women in the bedroom.  Because their partners don’t know how to please them, they have to look elsewhere for sexual gratification.

      Some Sex Specialists Proclaim That Women Will Never Be Faithful In A Relationship, Because They Will Always Be Unsatisfied With Their Sexual Lives…”  

      Yet Nothing Could Be Further From The Truth! 

      The truth is a woman can be 100% FAITHFUL if her partner knows how to give her regular orgasms. PERIOD! 

      Did you know it’s actually easier for women to have multiple orgasms than it is for men?  It’s true, but most women don’t get to experience that type of pleasure because their partners just don’t know how to make it happen.

       

       

      That’s where I can help…

      Did you know that there is a PROVEN method that’ll help you please your woman with the hottest and most amazing orgasms every single time you have sex?   

      This method gets results with women of ALL ages, no matter how experienced or inexperienced they are.  It will help you seduce and touch her the right way until she reaches the most amazing orgasm ever! GUARANTEED!

       

      How Does It Work?  

      Let me introduce myself. My name is Gabrielle Moore.

      I’m a married bisexual woman, and I’ve worked many years face-to-face with couples and sexually active women, helping them to improve their sex lives step-by-step!

      I particularly enjoy teaching men how to bring women to orgasm multiple times, every time!

      When I was working with these men, I soon realized they all had EXACTLY the same problems and concerns about their sex lives.

       

      Here are some of their concerns (I literally copied and pasted them!):

      “I love my wife; But I admit I’ve always been selfish in bed. I am only interested in “getting off” and going to sleep.

      However, my wife told me she is not satisfied. I cannot believe it! Our sex life seemed so perfect!”

      ———————–

      “I thought I was good in bed. But, my girlfriend told me that she was bored! She needed something new! What??? What are you talking about!

      I’m scared that she will look for “something new” with someone else! Help!”

      ———————–

      “Yesterday, I found my girlfriend’s diary in her bedroom and I read it. She wrote that she’s never had an orgasm with me!

      I really couldn’t tell that she was faking! I thought it could never happen to me! What do I do now! What do I tell her?”

      ———————–

      “I hate coming home after work, and seeing my wife “turned on” and begging for something new. I feel that I have to please her every day and wait until she “gets off”.

      I don’t know what else can I do to please her!”

      ———————–

      “I don’t want to have sex with my wife anymore because I feel that I’m “put in the spotlight”! I feel too much pressure because I think she ALWAYS has to reach an orgasm. How can I please her? “

      ———————–

       

      When I realized that these men’s main concerns about pleasing their women were THE SAME, I decided to create a program to help men understand the female body so they could give women mind-blowing orgasms every time!

      After years of hands-on experience and research, I’ve created a step-by-step “take you by the hand” method to help menseduce women and give them the hottest orgasms using the most advanced and proven techniques.

      My mission is very clear: I want to help as many men as I can to improve their sex life by giving the women in their lives the most pleasurable, most incredible orgasms they have ever experienced!    

       

       “Thousands Of Women Are Finally Enjoying Multiple Orgasms Every Time; Let Me Show You How You Too Can Give Your Woman The Hottest Orgasm Ever TONIGHT!”

      Do you want to know my secret for giving women multiple orgasms every time? Before I disclose it, I want you to know that this method applies to all types of sexual relationships:   

      • Married couples

      • Couples living together

      • Bisexual / Lesbian couples

      • Swingers  

       

      The Secret To Giving Women Amazing Orgasms Every Time:

       

      “The More Advanced And Proven Positions You Know, The Easier It Will Be To Give Her A Mind-Blowing Orgasm Every Time.”

       You might wonder if you can give women mind-blowing orgasms simply by learning new positions and techniques.  The answer is yes, you can! Best of all, there’s a leading program now available to you that reveals step-by-step ADVANCED techniques and proven methods to giving women multiple long-lasting orgasms every time. 

       

      The Female Orgasm Revealed is a program that’s based on my studies, research, and practice with sexually active couples. I’ve compressed the very best of decades of medical research into this program. It discloses the exceptional techniques that will help you seduce women the right way!

       

      Here’s A Sneak Peek At What You’ll Find Out  In This Amazing Program

      1.Why a “vaginal orgasm” is almost IMPOSSIBLE for women! (Only about 20% of women can achieve an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone.  The other 80% need something a little extra! You will learn EXACTLY how to give women this “little-extra” which makes a “BIG-difference”!

       2. The 3 most important reasons why penetration alone will NEVER bring a women to an orgasm, and what to do about it! 

      3. The 5 strategies to solve the BIGGEST sexual problem of all women: the INABILITY of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris. (If you follow these simple strategies, your woman will NEVER have to fake an orgasm again GUARANTEED!) 

      4. The 6 hottest recently-disclosed techniques to bring a woman to MULTIPLE orgasms WITHOUT even penetrating her! You will NOT even have to touch her vagina to make her start screaming your name in ecstasy! 

       5.The 4 definite reasons why it is SO difficult for women to have an orgasm. (Just knowing these reasons will help give her an orgasm 98.7% of the times!) 

       6.The #1 reason why women FAKE an orgasm (If you know this reason, you will ALWAYS be able to identify a “fake-orgasm” from a “genuine-screaming-orgasm”!  

       7.The 34 hottest and most “uncommon” positions you MUST try tonight if you want her to reach a DOZEN orgasms at least! GUARANTEED! 

      8. How to be in absolute control of the MOST important sexual organ of a woman (And NO, it´s definitely not the clitoris!)  

       9.Why sexual fantasies could be stopping your woman from having regular orgasms with you! And how to turn these hot fantasies into your most POWERFUL sexual weapons just by using them the right way!  

       10.How to “re-train” your woman´s body so that she can have regular orgasms during sex! (Believe it or not, once her body is “trained” to reach an orgasm using one method -most likely through masturbation-, it is almost impossible for her to have an orgasm with her partner!)

      11.How to avoid the BIGGEST and most often unrecognized mistake most men make when trying to give women an orgasm. (You won’t believe how simple it is to stop making the SAME mistake over and over!)

      12.The 3 most important reasons why foreplay is definitely NOT optional: it´s a MUST! And the 4 hottest methods to do it the right way! (If you follow these 4 methods step-by-step,it will be “physically-impossible” for your woman to have sex with you without reaching a breath-taking orgasm!)

      13.The 4 stages a woman MUST follow to have an orgasm (All women who fake their orgasms end up continually jumping from the second to the fourth stage of sexual response - so NEVER let her skip stage THREE unless you want to hear a “fake-scream” next to you!) 

      14.How to master the FOURTH stage of a woman´s sexual response so that she can reach MULTIPLE orgasms after the first ONE! (Trust me, she will NEVER experience multiple orgasms if you can´t take her to stage four the right way!)

      15.Why you MUST keep your hands away from her vagina until you know that she is well into the second stage, unless you want to interrupt an orgasm just like 91.4% of men do!

       16.The most POWERFUL secret you can learn from Johnny Depp (believe it or not!) and set a woman on fire simply by stroking a SECRET part of her body!)

      17.How to use the “partial-penetration” technique to your advantage and have your girl literally BEGGING you for more! 

      18. How to use oral sex just as “an excuse” to convince your female partner to have anal sex with you! (If you have anal sex with her the way I will explain, it´ll be literally IMPOSSIBLE for her not to “get off”!)

       

      19. The EASIEST way to know if a woman is ready for penetration (Just because a woman’s vagina is lubricated does not mean she is aroused enough for sexual intercourse, unfortunately most men don’t know that!)

       20.How to transform  a conventional pillow into a “multiple-orgasm-machine”! (If you use the pillow the right way, you’ll have an easier time of stimulating her clitoris during vaginal intercourse!)

       21.The “MUST-HAVE” tool you definitely need to stimulate her anus during penetration and make vaginal orgasm a reality TONIGHT! 

      22. The 5 types of “missionary positions” you can use to give her 5 screaming orgasms tonight. GUARANTEED! (If you thought there was only one missionary position, you were very WRONG!) 

       23. The 4 recently-disclosed “woman-on-top” positions that will have her screaming your name a few minutes from now! 

      24. How to do the “doggy-style-position” the right way so that you can finally reach her G-Spot (Once she reaches a G-Spot orgasm, she will NEVER want to have a boring “vaginal” or “clitoral” orgasm again!)




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