How to Practice the Yab-Yum Tantric Sex Position
The Yab-Yum is considered to be the most basic of the tantric sex positions. It is the position most people first hear about by name when they begin to explore the world of tantric sex. When reading books about tantra, it is often the first of many sex positions to be illustrated. It is known for its ability to enhance intimacy and to prolong erections without orgasm. While not the easiest of the sex positions of tantra, it is still one you can learn and practice without any specialized instruction.
Enjoy the Yab-Yum Any Time
Begin by having the man sit on a firm, flat surface. He should loosely cross his legs into a standard sitting stance (also known as a half-lotus position).
Continue by having the female sit on the man’s lap, facing him. Her legs should straddle the man’s waist, coming around him to meet behind his back.
Get the penis inserted into the vagina by having the woman raise her hips up off the man just far enough for him to accomplish this.
Increase closeness and intimacy by having both partners wrap their arms around each other as tightly as is comfortable. Faces should be almost touching and each partner should feel the other’s breath against his own nose and mouth.
Begin the in-and-out thrusts of the act of intercourse. Both the man and the woman can move their hips freely to accomplish this in the Yab-Yum position. Orgasm is not always the goal of the Yab-Yum–intimacy is–so continue having sex this way until you are both ready to stop.
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