How to Practice the Yab-Yum Tantric Sex Position

November 13th, 2008

Step 1:

Begin by having the man sit on a firm, flat surface. He should loosely cross his legs into a standard sitting stance (also known as a half-lotus position).
Step 2:

Continue by having the female sit on the man’s lap, facing him. Her legs should straddle the man’s waist, coming around him to meet behind his back.
Step 3:

Get the penis inserted into the vagina by having the woman raise her hips up off the man just far enough for him to accomplish this.
Step 4:

Increase closeness and intimacy by having both partners wrap their arms around each other as tightly as is comfortable. Faces should be almost touching and each partner should feel the other’s breath against his own nose and mouth.
Step 5:

Begin the in-and-out thrusts of the act of intercourse. Both the man and the woman can move their hips freely to accomplish this in the Yab-Yum position. Orgasm is not always the goal of the Yab-Yum–intimacy is–so continue having sex this way until you are both ready to stop.

Tips & Warnings

If you and your partner are new to the Yab-Yum position, you should find a place with readily available back support for the man the first few times you practice. Once you’ve both gotten accustomed to the Yab-Yum and built up some muscles, you can gradually move to other locations.
The Yab-Yum tantric sex position allows both partners a great deal of control over the sensations they experience and their physical responses to those sensations. This makes it an excellent sex practice for any man who suffers from premature ejaculation or for any woman who needs a lengthy session of intercourse to achieve orgasm.
Sometimes couples find it difficult to keep the penis from slipping out of the vagina when first beginning to practice the Yab-Yum. This problem can usually be corrected by placing a firm pillow between the man’s legs and having the woman sit on that during sex.

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