Soft Entry - Hard Withdrawal Tantric

Did you know you can still make love without an erection? The main thing for a man is to overcome the psychological belief that he is impotent if he does not have an erection. Men are conditioned to believe that the lingam has to be hard as steel and go all night. If it isn’t they can become very embarrassed. Most men will not even attempt to make love once they are soft.

However the soft lingam can be used in wondrous ways to
excite your woman.

The secret is to lie in the scissors position because it is the
easiest way to stay in a woman whether you are erect or
soft. Your lover can take the soft penis and stroke around her
clitoris and often you will start to get an erection once you
see her getting excited. Or when she is moist she can put
your soft penis inside her. If you are in there long enough,
you may get an erection. If you don’t, just lie in the scissors
position. The main thing is to stay relaxed. You can have a
pleasurable experience just being inside; you do not need to
have an erection.

If your woman knows her secrets she will tell you that sometimes
she likes it when your lingam is soft. My experience is that you may
enter soft, but you nearly always come out hard. Now you know the
secret of soft entry - hard withdrawal - there is no barrier to your
making love at any time. Include soft entry in your range of lovemaking techniques.

The Tantric goddess - Treating Him
(This next tip is taken from Diane Riley’s book)

A woman who is comfortable with her Erotic Goddess of love is able to delight in the sexual pleasure she can initiate for her lover. She knows that sometimes, her lover really appreciates being seduced and feeling the one “desired”. She knows it’s important they both take this role at different times. That is part of the dance of love that helps to keep love and passion alive.

Erotic full body massage

A wonderful part of being an Erotic Goddess is being able to give your partner more pleasure than he has ever experienced before.

The first thing you need to do is to set the scene; room, music, lighting, temperature, refreshments. This time is for his pleasure, let him relax, he doesn’t have to do anything except receive your attention and your love.

For many men, this is a dream come true! So for a man to hear that all he needs to do is to enjoy his woman’s loving attention, it’s great.

He may have had a massage before, but not like the one you are about to give him. Masseurs avoid our most pleasurable parts. This time, the focus is on the whole of the body and that means his wand of light will definitely not be left out. Your partner is going to love this. It will help shift the focus of his sexual experience from purely genital to an overall feeling of bliss on many levels. Not
only will it be good for your partner, you will also thoroughly enjoy giving it. It will open you up to new experiences because it will give you a sense of power.

You will be orchestrating his pleasure and initiating him into new areas of sexuality.

In this practice, you will experience being an Aphrodite Temple Priestess and take him to Paradise. As one of Aphrodite’s, you view heightened pleasure as a gift to the Divine, to the goddess. You know pleasure is derived not purely from just receiving as is the case for mere mortals with their attitude of “what’s in this
for me?” True pleasure also comes from giving in service of the Goddess.

First, set the temple scene for the massage; whatever scene you set in your bedroom depends on what gives you a feeling of being the initiatress. Wear clothing that imparts this feeling. For some women, this can mean lacy underwear, for others it could be transparent scarves and beads, for others still,maybe black leather.

Have massage oils prepared, towel, water, and a massage table if you have one. Check to see you have everything on hand you need so that you don’t have to keep getting up to find something.

Once you’ve set the scene, prepare your partner. Perhaps scrub his back in the bath and towel him down. You could offer him his favourite food or drink and provide some entertainment, music or even a seductive dance as a gift from Aphrodite.

Have him first lie down on his stomach and first give him a back massage.

Many of us carry a lot of accumulated tension and stress in the shoulders and back and across the hips. Firm pressure and pummelling with a loose fist is often just what he needs to relax. Ask him to turn over and massage him all over including hands, feet, legs, arms, head, neck, and chest. If you have never
given a massage before, you could book yourself in for a therapeutic massage so you get some ideas on what to try, or join a basic massage class.

Otherwise,simply sweep your hands all over his body, apply firm pressure to tense areas using the flat of your hand with circular motion and kiss any sensitive areas including ankles, knees, inside of thighs, neck, ears, and nipples and so on.

Continue this way for around ten to fifteen minutes until you arrive at that glorious destination, his wand of light. (His genitals)

Lie him on his back, legs spread apart, as you sit between his legs.
Know you may massage and play with his love wand.

Renaming your genitalia

Renaming your genitals can be a healing process, especially for women as it creates a positive image with this part of your body. Plus it can also be fun at the same time.

Tantra has taken from the Hindu language.

Vagina = Yoni: Yoni means a “field of heaven” or “scared place”.

Penis = Lingum: Lingum means “Wand of light”.

You can make up your own words. Here are a few examples.

For women: Lotus flower, pleasure place, hidden valley, rosetta, flower, honey pot.

For men: Longum, healing wand, magic light.

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