Tantric Healing Can Make Relationships Work

March 16th, 2008

Tantric Healing Can Make Relationships Work

"Most of the couples that come to tantric therapy complain that the partner they chose is no longer fulfilling their needs. Either the sexual expression on which the choice of the marriage was made has become stale or the safety provided by of the marriage contract has become boring and at least one of them is longing for more sex and more creativity. To reach a higher harmony with a more fulfilling love life the knowledge of Tantra is essential as well as being aware of the basic differences between man and woman or, to be more precise, between masculine and feminine energy expressions. So you can substitute the word woman for feminine expression and the word man for masculine expression."

Too Busy for Sex

" “There shall not be one minute in an hour
Wherein I will not kiss my sweet love’s
flower.” (William Shakespeare Venus and Adonis)

The legal contract of marriage is of itself an agreement for financial security, with the qualities of loyalty, faithfulness and obedience written in. As some have found, this contract is not easily fulfilled. Couples are inwardly lacking what they may not even have a name for. They are not happy in their soul because their most personal closets are closed. Being together for many years is not always a sign of a satiated life. Indeed, older couples often feel embarrassed, even ashamed of intimacy on the erotic level. One can drown the fervor of the soul with piety by assuming a hard attitude to spiritual sexuality. "

Your Treasure Map for Sacred Sex

NCH-City International Blog talks about how to make an ideal bedroom for sacred sex:

  • Planning your bedroom theme (ex. Raunchy Boudoir, Arabian Tent)
  • Bedroom blessing
  • Consecrating your bedroom
  • Bedtime cleansing ritual

Sacred Sex Workshops

Ready to go deeper and fly higher? Whether you’ve taken a course with us or another teacher or are self-taught Tantra practitioners, this weekend playshop will take you to another level of sacred sexual pleasure.

Some highlights:
-Review of Passion Pump and Sexual Fire Breath ~ techniques for building and moving your sexual energy

-Going into the O-Zone ~ increasing your focus during loving
-Yoni and lingam massage for sexual healing

The Magic of Sex

" Sex is one of the most (some say THE most) powerful energies on the planet. To grasp its awesome and often overlooked power, take a look at the starving Somalis. Take away their food, take away their dignity, humiliate and torture them and they still make babies.

Within our loins lies an energy that has the potential to create any reality we want. Unfortunately, most humans have a love/hate relationship with sex that is reflected in many ways (i.e., unsafe promiscuity, self-destructive perversions, denial, shutdown, religious intolerance, rape, abuse, etc.). Religion has done much to suppress our divine sexual nature and has kept the masses ignorant of the potential uses of sexual energy.

When we accept and embrace our sexual nature we are free to use its awesome power for our benefit. We no longer worship it or deny it. We come into balance and view our sexuality as part of our divinity. It becomes joyful, light and loving. We learn to use sex for more than procreation or sensual gratification.

I want to make a comment about celibacy. Many people, including so-called enlightened teachers and religious figures, misunderstand celibacy. True celibacy is not a denial or suppression of sexual energy. True celibacy is when one chooses to focus/channel their sexual energy, in non-sexual ways, into other areas of their being. There are many ways to do this but Sex Magic is not one of them since it involves sexual stimulation. Tantra embraces both the sexual path and the celibate path.

Sex is creative energy. Magic is the art of creating reality.

True magic is simply the art of creating what you want. We can liken all the processes given to us by masters and teachers (Seth, Alexander, Abraham, Avatar, etc.), as tools in our magician’s or Shaman’s bag. People who consciously and deliberately create their reality are the ultimate magicians on the planet. "

Tantric Healing Can Improve Your Relationship

"Healing can be on many levels and one of the main areas for healing, is human relationships. People over the years have trained to develop their awareness through Yoga and Meditation.

They have: become aware of the subtle energy centres in the body the Chakras; trained to experience the rising of the Kundalini and the flow of the life force; and learned sets of postures and rituals to blend the Yin-Yang strands of the life force together and generate a whole symphony of experiences leading to self-realisation from the union of sharing.

Tantra is about openness and looking into unexplored areas of life in a non-judgemental way. It is about transcending belief systems; freeing the spirit from past experience; and shining consciousness in full awareness in the present moment.

During the practice of Tantra you can look in great depth at what you are feeling and experiencing while giving, in a sharing way the divine life force, which you are. The auras merge and the electromagnetic field of the body grows in strength, creating a charisma, a field of love, which surrounds, permeates and envelops the two partners in healing warmth."

More Information About Tantra…

"Part 1: The Basics of Tantrism

Tantra has been one of the most neglected branches of Indian spiritual studies despite the considerable number of texts devoted to this practice, which dates back to the 5th-9th century AD.

Many people still consider tantra to be full of obscenities and unfit for people of good taste. It is also often accused of being a kind of black magic. However, in reality, tantra is one of the most important Indian traditions, representing the practical aspect of the Vedic tradition.

Part 2: Uses & Abuses of Tantrism

Proper recitation of mantras help invoke the natural forces to produce the desired effect. "Tantrasadhana" or tantrik meditation and worship helps one attain many supernatural powers. These powers may be used for good or for bad purposes."

The Best Tantric Moments


"Quickie" is a term used for short, quick sex. "The Tantric Quickie" explains the difference of having a tantric quickie than the ordinary quickie. An ordinary quickie is not as sacred as tantric quickie. Most women are not satisfied in an ordinary quickie. There are helpful tips in
"The Tantric Quickie" article that can teach to how to do the tantric quickie. Some of these tips are:

"* Each morning, before the two of you get up, make love. Spend just a couple of the minutes getting each other stimulated and then go right to intercourse.

* Try a little risky behavior. Have sex somewhere you might not usually have it.

* Surprise each other with ten minutes of oral sex….

The point of a “Tantric Quickie” is to:

* Quickly increase the level of intimacy between the two of you.
* Help raise testosterone levels in women and men who are getting a little older…"

4 Freedoms Tantra Sex Positions

The article Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions - "Show me what you like", talks about a sex position on ejaculation. We know that the best part of sex is to know that we had satisfied our partner. Sex satisfaction can only be achieved through ejaculation.

Lovers should be open about their thoughts and feelings especially during lovemaking. You can never be satisfied unless you tell your partner what you want. In that way, sex will be more fun. Try to explore new things, not just an ordinary lovemaking. Men can also be sexy like women. Some women are shy to open up their sexual fantasies so men should encourage their partner to let them know what women fantasize about.

Methods of Energy Healing

"Six colors are associated with aura and interpreted into six personalities. These colors are all present in an individual but one or two are more pronounced.

Green – ambitious achiever
Blue – spiritual peacemaker
White – unconventional chameleon

Red – activist

Orange – creative communicator

Violet - psychic


Why Do People Turn to Energy Healing?
Pranic, Tantric, and Reiki are considered alternative methods of healing. In spite of the availability and relative accessibility of modern medicine, how come more and more people are being drawned to them?

Here are some possible reasons:

· Energy healing worked where modern medicine failed.

· People perceive modern medicine to be isolating.

· Energy healing is non-obtrusive and natural thus it is safer.

· Energy healing is a good way of relieving stress."

The Essence of Tantra

"Tantric Healing is the balancing and feeling of the divine life force as we draw it through us and radiate it to our partner. Tantra is the flow of energy from our most subtle core, through all our five senses, balancing the Yin-Yang (Male-Female) energy, as we weave our cosmic dance on the stage of life.

You can practise Tantra while enjoying a meal in a fine restaurant, just being aware of all the subtle sensations of your taste buds and experiencing the look, colours, texture and aroma of the food and wine. People over the years have trained to develop their awareness through Yoga and Meditation."

Tantra’s Massaging Tips

"Tantra massage is a very, very special kind of massage, almost unique. It’s not readily available just everywhere because it takes a certain kind of specialization. The professional who provides such massage services must be a master of the basic and advanced principles of Tantra and meditation. The massage session must begin with ancient Tantric rituals and a time of meditation in order to focus on the Chakras and the spiritual link with the entire universe.

Tantra massage makes use of light, sensual and slow strokes that can channel energy and increase the body’s sensitivity to a different reality.

Couples can try Tantric massage in order to increase their intimacy and to create strong emotional bond between the two partners by building love, tenderness and trust instead of sex."

Tantra or Viagra

"Learning about Tantra Yoga, and Tantric sex, will improve male sexual health at any age. Middle-aged couples can improve their own relationship, on many planes, with the help of Tantra Yoga and Tantric Sex. This is a significant point, when you look around at soaring divorce rates."




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